Should I stay or should I go?
Years ago you moved to Holland… “Just for a couple of years or maybe forever” you thought at the time. Now you find yourself (still) living and working here, but the big question keeps coming back: “Should I stay or should I go?”
This question generates even more difficult ones – perhaps a lot of confusion and stress too. Perhaps you just have a general feeling of being in limbo and not knowing what to do, not seeing the future clearly.
- They say “Home is where the heart is” – but where is mine?
- I tried to integrate here – Why do I still feel like an outsider?
- I still miss home!
- I feel nostalgic and think “those were the days?” but I’m not sure if I’m nostalgic for my youth or for the location.
In between two countries. Many expats deal with these kind of situations and have mixed feelings about whether or not they “belong”. What would be better for your career and what do you personally, really want? Sometimes you just don’t know and you feel like you are going mad.
With my experience as career coach and as an emigrant and former partner of an expat I can help you see your questions and doubts from different angles: professionally, realistically and emotionally.
My expertise will help you discover what is right for you, and make sense of personal factors that seem to confuse and overwhelm you. I will help you address these crucial matters honestly and practically.
What holds you back to do what you want to do?
Core beliefs (or limiting or restrictive beliefs) are the very essence of how we see ourselves, other people, the world, and the future. Core beliefs develop over time, usually from childhood and through the experience of significant life events or particular life circumstances. Core beliefs are strongly-held, rigid, and inflexible beliefs that are maintained by the tendency to focus on information that supports the belief and ignoring evidence that contradicts it.
How to transform your limiting beliefs into positive ones? Expats@Work follows a 3-step program:
Self-Awareness – Identify your limiting beliefs.
Visualization – Where do I want to go? What we believe is what we create.
Transformation – How to transfer limiting beliefs into positive ones?
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